Yeah, that backwards pressure trend usually means resistance in the system is decreasing while it runs, not increasing like it would with a dirty filter. One thing I don’t see mentioned yet is debris slowly shifting off the sand bed or out of the plumbing once the pump’s been running for a while.
I ran into this after a heavy vacuuming session. Fine junk got pulled into the filter and some of it partially blocked the standpipe or settled unevenly in the sand. When the pump first kicked on, pressure looked normal. After a few hours, the flow paths kind of re-established themselves, channeling formed, and pressure dropped because water found an easier route through the sand. Flow looked “okay” but weaker, exactly like you’re describing.
Another clue is air in the system. Even a tiny suction-side leak can slowly accumulate air in the filter tank. You might not see obvious bubbles at the returns, but the air pocket reduces effective filtration area, which lowers pressure over time. Next time it’s running, crack the filter air relief or bump the pump lid and see if a lot of air releases.
If it were mine, I’d note pressure right after a backwash, then again after 4–6 hours at the same pump speed. If it keeps dropping, I’d deep clean the sand bed with a hose before tearing into anything mechanical. When pressure drops, it’s usually telling you water is taking shortcuts, not that the filter is getting cleaner. Anyone else notice the flow feels different even though the gauge is lower?