I ran into this exact thing and assumed my filter was undersized too, but in my case that wasn’t the main problem. A filter that clogs again in 3–4 days is usually doing its job a little too well because something upstream keeps feeding it junk.
For me it turned out to be fine debris plus chemistry, not leaves or obvious dirt. Pollen season, construction dust nearby, and a slightly off pH meant a ton of microscopic stuff was staying suspended. The cartridge would load up fast, pressure would spike, I’d clean it, and the cycle repeated. The giveaway was that the pool looked “okay” but never really sparkly. That fine haze has to go somewhere, and it ends up in the filter.
A few things that helped slow the pressure rise down. First, I made sure pH was dialed in, because when pH drifts, particles don’t clump well and the filter has to catch everything the hard way. Second, I brushed more often so debris didn’t keep breaking loose in small doses. I also added skimmer socks and was shocked how much extra fine stuff they caught before it ever hit the cartridge.
When it was really bad, a very small dose of clarifier from aquadoc helped the fines bind together so the filter could trap them more efficiently instead of choking on dust. After that, pressure rose more gradually instead of spiking every few days.
A filter can be too small, but if the pressure jumps fast, it’s often a symptom, not the cause. If you watch your pressure right after cleaning, does it climb steadily every day, or does it jump suddenly after certain things like storms, heavy use, or mowing days?