You don’t just have to accept it, but it helps to understand why it keeps happening so you can cut it down.
Those tiny bugs are mostly active overnight and right around dawn. A pool with calm, mirror-smooth water is basically a perfect landing pad for them. They aren’t breeding in the pool or coming because of chemistry, they’re just resting, drinking, or getting disoriented by reflections and nearby lights. That’s why you skim them out and the water looks great again, until the next morning.
What helped me more than anything was breaking the surface during the night. I changed my pump schedule so it runs for a couple hours early in the morning instead of everything during the day. Even gentle surface movement makes it hard for bugs to sit there, and most end up getting pulled into the skimmer instead of floating everywhere. If your returns are aimed down, angling one slightly upward can help too.
Also take a look at lights around the pool, not just pool lights. Porch lights, landscape lights, or even a neighbor’s bright light nearby can attract insects all night and the pool ends up being where they land. Dimming or redirecting one light made a bigger difference for me than I expected.
You’ll probably never get zero bugs unless the pool is enclosed, but with surface movement, better skimmer sweep, and less nighttime light, it usually goes from “bug trap” to just a quick skim and done.