If sand is appearing in your pool, the culprit is usually a damaged lateral at the bottom of the filter. Even one small crack can allow sand to pass through and get pushed out with the water. The best approach is to turn off the pump, open up the filter, and inspect all the laterals. Replacing only the broken ones usually solves the problem, no need to replace the entire filter. While you’re at it, double-check that the sand level is correct and that you’re using the proper #20 silica sand, too much or the wrong type can make sand movement worse.