I used to think this was just a “pick one and be done” decision, but after living with different setups, my preference kind of shifted based on how much attention I actually wanted to give the pool.
Right now I lean sand, not because it’s the best on paper, but because it’s the least demanding mentally. I don’t have to think about it much. Pressure creeps up, I backwash, done. During busy weeks or when life gets in the way, it’s forgiving. Water stays swim-ready even if it’s not showroom perfect.
That said, when I had more time and cared more about that polished look, cartridge was really appealing. Clearer water and no backwash mess, but you do have to be okay with pulling it out and rinsing it when pressure rises. DE gave the nicest water I’ve ever had, but it also asked the most of me, and eventually I realized I didn’t enjoy the extra steps.
So my “preference” ended up being less about filtration quality and more about how much effort I realistically want to put in week after week. If I wanted the cleanest look, I’d pick DE. If I wanted a good balance, cartridge. If I want to barely think about the filter at all, sand wins for me.